Endurance, Faith, and the “Pursuit of Happyness”

A powerful reflection on resilience, discipline, and the unseen work behind entrepreneurship through the lens of “The Pursuit of Happyness “ (2006). As an immigrant and clinician, I share how slow, steady progress and emotional endurance shape meaningful, sustainable growth both in business and in life.

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Is It Overthinking or a Trauma?

Many people are told to “stop overthinking,” when in reality, their nervous system is sounding an alarm. This post explores the difference between unhealthy rumination and trauma responses, how the body holds on to pain, and why you can’t just “move on.” Learn trauma-informed strategies to regulate, find safety, and heal with compassion.

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The Psychology of“Listening More and Speaking Less”

We’ve all heard the advice: listen more, speak less. But communication isn’t that simple. Early attachment style, lived experiences, and coping patterns shape how we talk and listen, and self-awareness can help us change the way we connect.


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4 OARS Skills to Empower Conversations

Explore the OARS—Open Questions, Affirmations, Reflections, and Summaries framework, a simple yet powerful tool from Motivational Interviewing techniques. Learn how these four skills can transform everyday conversations into fostering respect, empathy, and lasting connection at work, in therapy, in relationships, and at home.

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Pride and Prejudice

Trauma often hides behind traits we misinterpret — pride, aloofness, or quick judgment. Drawing from Pride and Prejudice and modern trauma insights, this reflection explores how self-protection and cognitive rigidity shape relationships — and how we can move beyond them toward connection and healing.


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