Endurance, Faith, and the “Pursuit of Happyness”
A powerful reflection on resilience, discipline, and the unseen work behind entrepreneurship through the lens of “The Pursuit of Happyness “ (2006). As an immigrant and clinician, I share how slow, steady progress and emotional endurance shape meaningful, sustainable growth both in business and in life.
Breaking Stigma: Words That Hurt vs. Heal
The most insidious mental health stigma often happens in places we least expect it. In this post, I explore how our everyday words either reinforce these barriers or dismantle them.
5 Strategies for Anxiety-Free Holidays
Struggling with holiday anxiety and draining family gatherings? Learn five cognitive-based strategies to healthy boundaries, manage difficult personalities, and protect your mental health during the holiday season without isolation or guilt.
Is It Overthinking or a Trauma?
Many people are told to “stop overthinking,” when in reality, their nervous system is sounding an alarm. This post explores the difference between unhealthy rumination and trauma responses, how the body holds on to pain, and why you can’t just “move on.” Learn trauma-informed strategies to regulate, find safety, and heal with compassion.
The Psychology of“Listening More and Speaking Less”
We’ve all heard the advice: listen more, speak less. But communication isn’t that simple. Early attachment style, lived experiences, and coping patterns shape how we talk and listen, and self-awareness can help us change the way we connect.
4 OARS Skills to Empower Conversations
Explore the OARS—Open Questions, Affirmations, Reflections, and Summaries framework, a simple yet powerful tool from Motivational Interviewing techniques. Learn how these four skills can transform everyday conversations into fostering respect, empathy, and lasting connection at work, in therapy, in relationships, and at home.
Job Creep: A Fast Track to Burnout
Job creep may look like teamwork at first, but it slowly erodes boundaries and well-being. Here’s how to recognize it early and protect your bandwidth.
Pride and Prejudice
Trauma often hides behind traits we misinterpret — pride, aloofness, or quick judgment. Drawing from Pride and Prejudice and modern trauma insights, this reflection explores how self-protection and cognitive rigidity shape relationships — and how we can move beyond them toward connection and healing.
The Mental Health Power of Trade Work
Trade work isn’t just job training — it’s healing. In this post, I explore how hands-on skills and mentorship can support identity, regulation, and mental wellness.
It’s Not Just Chemistry
Psychiatric medications can support healing when it is approached from a trauma-informed lens, safety, and shared decision-making.
Dear Freedom
What if freedom isn’t about running away, but coming home to yourself? This letter explores what it means to reclaim autonomy after trauma — with softness, not struggle.
Dear Understanding
Understanding isn’t agreement—it’s presence. For trauma survivors, being seen without having to explain is one of the deepest forms of healing.
Dear Boundaries
Boundaries aren’t about keeping people out—they’re about keeping yourself safe, centered, and whole. A gentle letter for those healing from guilt, people-pleasing, and emotional exhaustion.
